I have been an activist and educator in the sex-positive community since the early 1990s. Since 1999 I've been the Executive Director of Seattle's Sex-Positive Community Center, aka The Wet Spot, a non-profit organization which began with 60 members and under my steerage now boasts more than 8000 members. As Director, I organize social and education events. I also present sexuality workshops on a variety of topics around the country and in Canada.
I am kinky and polyamorous. I'm currently in a poly triad, consisting of my wonderful partners Jim and Jennifer. I also have an incredible boy who bottoms to me who goes by the name, alex. I have other amazing people in my poly molecule that I'm sure I'll talk more about as time goes on.
I am currently President of the board of Consolidated Art Works (www.conworks.org) a multi-disciplinary arts organization. Consolidated Art Works is the location of the Seattle Erotic Art Festival (www.seattleerotic.org) of which I am the Festival Director and which is produced by The Wet Spot. I currently volunteer monthly at Lambert House (www.lamberthouse.org) a drop in center for LGBT youth.